Misunderstanding gaps, effort, and the quiet cost of being misread In third grade, I struggled with spelling. I still do at times, especially if I don’t slow myself down and think carefully through what I’m writing. That year, I was supposed to be the helper who collected the papers for the month. The problem was that I rarely had time to finish my tests, especially spelling tests. I needed more time to think through the words and remember how to spell them. No one explained